Build It Up

Q: How does one make it comfortable to masturbate? (Boy asking)

A: Start with finding a position that makes you comfortable, so you can relax your body. Let your mind focus on what turns you on. Whether it be bodybuilders at the gym or someone in a perticular outfit. Once you've found what makes you interested, then its time to bring in your senses. The feeling, the smell, the touch, the taste, what you see and even a small whisper in your ear that sends shivers down your spine. Explore yourself with your hands and touch certain places that makes you aroused and in heat - so to speak. Tease yourself.

When the temperature is rising, you'll instinctively know when you won't be able to resist your sex. The drive is up and running and the pleasure is within your grasp. Explore the regions around your penis, without actually touching it. (For some, that is a tough one.)
Massage your groin, forcing the blood to flow from your legs and towards your erotic zone. Which means that you use your fingers, or your hands if you prefer, and sort of pull/ "scratch" yourself from the legs and up to the erotic zone. Don't forget to breath, usually it comes naturally, but when you're aroused the body demands more air. Which means heavier breaths that involves the whole body.
If it feels natural then make some sounds, even scream. That proves that you, and your body, are in the pleasure zone. Just because you might be one of those that says nothing doesn't mean you can't reach full pleasure. As long as you feel it - you're in.

Once you're worked up and your penis is calling your full attention - it's time to please it. Some would use lube, saliva or even a condom, all materials are usable during masturbation. After all - it's a one-man show. The penis is now in full bloom and hard = sensitive to the touch and the work that soon will be performed. Especially the head, since there are so many nerves around that area.
Find your own individual technique and enjoy the natural ride of pleasure as you'll explode like fireworks. Only to return to the scene of the crime - and do it again, and again, and again.

No one knows your body better than you, and if you don't. Then you'd better start exploring because there are some people out there who will ask "what do you like?"
People are different, so this might not work on everybody but its pretty much the basic stuff. It's all about exploring your body and your sexual drive. Enjoy, and make it last!

Ji. ©

Time Taking Seriousness.

Q: How long does it take before you realize you're becoming serious with someone?

A: Usually - you just don't know. It's easy for someone who is not involved to tell you that you're becoming serious, since they can read the signs on your body. Unless you know it yourself and just say it like it is.

There's this transition between single and becoming a couple, and that transition is slowly progressing as the two of you keep communicating. You don't know you're becoming serious until you finally are.

When two people are going down the spiral of love, they themselves don't usually know they're going down. They are stuck in the moment with each other on an emotional level - at least, that's the dream version anyway. The road everyone wants to go down because everything works out and it will eventually lead to your own Happily-Ever-After. The thing is, in everyone's story, there's this evil bitch called "Reality."

Short version, you don't exactly know you're becoming serious with someone because its all in the emotions. If it feels right and this special someone fits your personal ideal - then aim and shoot. Keep in mind though that it takes two to tango. You may be interested, but what about the other person? Is he/she having the same goal as you or is there a hidden agenda behind those fancy, well-cooked words?

Love is a risk and there's always a 50/50 guarantee that you'll get burned. The odds is either with you or against you, play well.

Ji. ©

Starsign decides

Q: Which signs are most kinky or sexually adventurous?

A: Kinkyness and sexual drive is not in the stars but in the individual. Just like when it comes to ordinary horoscope, some things fit or comes natural while others just don't.

If we - for the arguments sake - should follow the signs, I'd vote for any sign in the element of Fire (Aries, Leo or Sagittarius) - mostly Sagittarius. Fire signs have a zest for life, they want to live. Bedroom included. Another option is Scorpio. Scorpios are known for their magnetic attraction, mind games and passion. Followed by Pisces who will do, pretty much anything, to please. I also hear that Virgo is someone you could add in the equation.

Problem is that, a person with a specific starsign can be influenced by another sign in his/her personal horoscope. I know, advanced stuff - but - I just want to point out to you that a sign has many sides. Let's say that you met a person who is an Aquarian, for example, and he turns out to be the opposite of what you had hoped for. That doesn't mean that every person born in Aquarius have the same characteristics. Every sign have various levels on the playing field, what's making the difference is the individual.

Back to the question. Even though a sign is "known" for a special taste in the bedroom, doesn't mean that every person in that sign has that specific drive. There are some with a very high and those with very low to none at all.
Remember this! At the end of the day, signs aside, people are just people. Which means a reaction will be inevitable - whether it be emotional or not - things will happen. Both on the inside and the outside.

Ji. ©