After I've randomly read some bloggs and watched a few videos, I noticed one - among many - common nominators. "Yttrandefrihet i Sverige" which is "Freedom of Speech in Sweden" in english, being used all the time.

 

I thought that I should reflect a little bit on that subject. I'm no expert when it comes to laws and such but this is what I know and think.
Freedom of Speech is one of Swedens four constitutions. Which means that every individual is allowed to have an opinion and - most importantly - express it.

 

You're allowed to have an opinion - Yes. You are allowed to express it - Yes. Now, this is were everything falls apart. The matter on HOW you express it. Feel free to express what you feel and think - as long as it doesn't offend other groups of people. Such as race, ethnicity, sexual orientation etc. in the form of insults, harsh words or any form of intention to harm or specifically attack one individual - or a whole group.

 

Basic stuff one should know, yet there are people who uses that constitution right but in the wrong way/ circumstances. Which could possibly lead to a whole lot of damage - both physically and mentally - that one, or more, could have avoided if the opinions weren't expressed in a sloppy way.
Everyone, in Sweden, know that they have their right to speak their mind - fine, but everyone either forgets, or ignores, the part on how you express it. If you think about the words to use in order to express your opinion - there's a bigger chance that you could avoid a fist fight or another form of confrontation you'd rather forget.

 

Ji. ©

 

Today was our first day in the radio studio - sending LIVE!

We've had some practice before but this time, people would listen. It was fun and because of tomorrow's date, our theme for the day was love. Playing some old love songs from the past like;

Aerosmith - I Don't Want To Miss A Thing
Bon Jovi - Bed of Roses
Whitney Houston - I Have Nothing
Backstreet Boys - All I Have to Give
and many more ...

We had a whole hour to both talk and play around the subject of love. Next week we'll send again but with a different theme - what? I will not tell.

Sending Live to you every wednesday at 4.30pm straight from Radio Eskilstuna 92,7. With a new theme - and surprise, every week. Enjoy!

Ji. ©

 

I know I'm late in watching the show but I had forgotten about it since the last season. I haven't followed the show since season 1 - I started att season 10. Only because I heard Jennifer Lopez was going to be one of the judges, I just had to watch. Along with Steven Tyler, I think they we're the perfect judges - even though I don't know who where before them.

When the "Idols" from the previous season appeard, I hit the search button on my computer and found some good songs they had released - along with Colton Dixon. I think that Jessica Sanchez is the new, and young, Beyoncé. She's going to be big - if she keeps it up. I also think that she should have won instead of Phillip Phillips.

I watched the first episode of the new season, and, haha! Seriously? Nicki Minaj and Mariah Carey? I had no idea Mariah had such "diva" attitude. Not to mention that they are now four judges. How is that going to work out? Personally, I don't think Nicki should be there - since she hasn't been in the business so long. Besides, I've heard that she uses vocal synchronizer - or something like that. The same I heard about Enrique Iglesias.

Ji. ©

 

This whole week, I walked the streets with a smile and - for a change - it felt good. Although the weekend had a few surprises in store that I didn't see coming, even though I should.

Last Monday evening, I met someone who felt nice. We decided to meet up again the day after, that's when we agreed to start dating - it was good. It was then he told me I was a nugget among rocks. The following days we met and enjoyed each others company and an invitation was accepted, to spend the weekend together. It started with kisses but ended in scars and lies.

He spoke about being honest and all, yet he could not deliever it. Today he texted me what was going on, and before I knew what to reply - I was out of his life. Just like that!

Now, I have to heal and give myself a break. Otherwise, I'll fall apart.

Ji. ©

Q: How does one make it comfortable to masturbate? (Boy asking)

A: Start with finding a position that makes you comfortable, so you can relax your body. Let your mind focus on what turns you on. Whether it be bodybuilders at the gym or someone in a perticular outfit. Once you've found what makes you interested, then its time to bring in your senses. The feeling, the smell, the touch, the taste, what you see and even a small whisper in your ear that sends shivers down your spine. Explore yourself with your hands and touch certain places that makes you aroused and in heat - so to speak. Tease yourself.

When the temperature is rising, you'll instinctively know when you won't be able to resist your sex. The drive is up and running and the pleasure is within your grasp. Explore the regions around your penis, without actually touching it. (For some, that is a tough one.)
Massage your groin, forcing the blood to flow from your legs and towards your erotic zone. Which means that you use your fingers, or your hands if you prefer, and sort of pull/ "scratch" yourself from the legs and up to the erotic zone. Don't forget to breath, usually it comes naturally, but when you're aroused the body demands more air. Which means heavier breaths that involves the whole body.
If it feels natural then make some sounds, even scream. That proves that you, and your body, are in the pleasure zone. Just because you might be one of those that says nothing doesn't mean you can't reach full pleasure. As long as you feel it - you're in.

Once you're worked up and your penis is calling your full attention - it's time to please it. Some would use lube, saliva or even a condom, all materials are usable during masturbation. After all - it's a one-man show. The penis is now in full bloom and hard = sensitive to the touch and the work that soon will be performed. Especially the head, since there are so many nerves around that area.
Find your own individual technique and enjoy the natural ride of pleasure as you'll explode like fireworks. Only to return to the scene of the crime - and do it again, and again, and again.

No one knows your body better than you, and if you don't. Then you'd better start exploring because there are some people out there who will ask "what do you like?"
People are different, so this might not work on everybody but its pretty much the basic stuff. It's all about exploring your body and your sexual drive. Enjoy, and make it last!

Ji. ©

 

It is said that sadness is beautiful and loneliness is tragical. Which I can agree on to a certain point where sadness is, practically based on loneliness. THAT is a tragic story.

What I don't get is when loneliness is mixed with beauty. How is it possible that there can be so many beautiful people - in this case based on appearance - and still they are single and alone. That is a thought of train that leads to a migrane in my head. What is worse is when there are beautiful people - at heart - and they are not lonely, they are completely shut out, more or less. Because they lack that one "trait" that calls for beauty in appearance, due to the possibility that they have it placed somewhere else.

"Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder." I just hope there are people enough for everyone.

The world has proven to become more and more tougher to live in, and that is the hardest part.

Ji. ©

Here we go! All this nonsene/crap/word popping has gone, just about, too far once again.

Just hear me out. All this talk about black vs. white - race, did reach its limit about 10 years ago. Yes, I'm not very in with todays chit-chat when it comes to the subject BUT I assume it's just like when it first came about. Only this time it's with some new-found arguments and more anger. Ladies and gentlemen, the arena is open!

Everybody knows the fact that everyone is different, and for some, that is a blessing. While others seems to oppose that statement in some sort of a competition. It's okey to be different but when some one else comes along and is more different - in a "better" way, the competition begins, you change yourself and everything goes wrong.

I'm neutral when it comes to race and color since I see both sides point of view, even if I don't always agree on the opinions that are expressed. Todays people have only one thing in common interest, and that is to complain. And with Internet, we can spread that complain out in the open to pretty much everybody. Which causes a major uproar, on both sides - against and agree. When we have established the source of the complains, changes is what is to be expected later - or rather, right away. Although, when it does come, it is not what we had hoped for and thus causing even more complains.
Perfection is a state of mind, not physical. That's how I see it anyway. "I accept that you exist, but it doesn't mean I have to like you." Words I came up with a few years ago and follow and it applies to all.

Further more, I'd like to quote Tomb Raider "Nature is about balance. All the world comes in pairs. Yin and Yang. Right and Wrong. Men and Women. What's pleasure without pain." The point is that we need everything, even the opposites. We don't know what's up if we don't have down. The same goes with everything else.
With the increasing population, nature is pretty much out of the picture - and with it, balance. So we could say that we are one step closer to total chaos. End of the world? For real this time? Maybe.

Ji. ©